Most people think leadership is about having answers. In reality? AI already has those. The leaders who win next are the ones who know how to ask better questions.
In this episode, Luciana and I trace the evolution from old-school hierarchy (titles, power, layers, politics) into something flatter, peer-driven, and choice-based — where people follow you because they want to, not because they “report” to you.
We dig into how AI accelerates this shift, why the next generations won’t tolerate traditional management structures anyway, and why solopreneurs will scale bigger than ever without hiring armies of employees. And most importantly, how coaching — real coaching — becomes the meta-skill that makes people better thinkers, better collaborators, and better humans.
Luciana also shares her trilogy model for helping anyone move from where they are to where they want to be, why listening is a superpower, and how the best leaders guide people to their own answers instead of supplying canned solutions. Think less “Cobra Kai drill sergeant,” more “Mr. Miyagi builds muscle memory while you think you’re just sanding the deck.”
This isn’t soft leadership. It’s the new competitive edge.
TL;DR
AI kills “leader as the answer-giver.” The winners will be the leaders who ask the right questions.
Hierarchy is collapsing. Future teams form around choice, not authority.
Solopreneurs scale bigger. AI makes “teams of one” way more powerful.
Coaching = the foundational skill. Listening + powerful questions = 10x commitment.
The trilogy model: What do you want → How will you get it → Who does what by when.
People own what they discover. If they found the solution, they’ll fight for it.
Next-gen leaders will not tolerate 1950s management. Flat, peer-based, and values-driven is the future.
Memorable Lines
“AI gives you the answers. Leaders win by knowing which questions matter.”
“Authority doesn’t make people follow you. Being worth following does.”
“Coaching isn’t teaching — it’s helping someone see what’s already within them.”
“When someone finds their own answer, their commitment goes up 10x.”
“The new organizational chart is horizontal — not vertical.”
Guest
Luciana Nunez — Executive Coach, former CEO & GM, 20+ years in corporate leadership, now helping leaders upgrade from command-and-control to collaborative, coaching-based leadership.
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/luciana-nunez-coachny/
Wesbite: https://www.theprestonassociates.com/
Why This Matters
If you want to stay relevant as AI reshapes work, you need to master the one thing machines can’t replicate:
human guidance, human insight, and human development.
Leadership is no longer about being the smartest person in the room — it’s about being the person who unlocks everyone else’s smartest thinking.
This episode shows you how.
Call to Action
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